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Where options feel intentional, not endless

You want wedding stationery that feels personal without starting from scratch. But once you start looking at fonts, patterns, crests, and paper options, it’s easy to wonder:

Is this too much?
Is this not enough?
Will everything actually work together?

That’s where Styling Guides come in.


invitation
styling guides

flawlessly coordinated

Each guide offers a curated set of design elements that have been tested, paired, and refined to work beautifully together. So you’re not stuck making endless decisions, but you still get an invitation suite that feels undeniably “you.”

decorative elements

Shown here is the guide for The Veranda Suite

There’s a guide for every invitation collection! View the styling guide in the “customize it” section.

Styling Guides

font pairings

patterns

layouts

artwork

monograms

crests

borders, motifs, and illustrations

styling guides allow for

Choices without overwhelm

Tailored to you

Flexible layouts adapt to your wording and artwork, allowing you to personalize your suite without settling for close enough.

Confident customization

Instead of sorting through endless ideas, you’re choosing from options that already make sense together.

Cohesive stationery 

Preview a full suite from save the dates to day-of, so you know how everything fits together before you order.

Want to blend elements from different suites or explore a wider range of finishing details? Made-to-Measure™ offers that added flexibility.

 I never felt overwhelmed, even with so many beautiful options to choose from. You offered the perfect balance!

- Meghan and Chris

The freedom to personalize, and guidance when we needed it.

Sarah made it easy to feel confident in every decision, and our invitations ended up feeling completely “us” and even more beautiful than I could have imagined.

shapes the story

Fonts are more than pretty letters: they shape the tone, style, and feel of your entire invitation.
But what if you don’t 100% love the script featured in your favorite invitation collection? No problem!

Your Styling Guide has suggestions for alternate scripts that work seamlessly with the layout.

typography

• Use a floral crest on your wedding invitation

It’s a subtle way to carry your style through every piece of your wedding paper without overdoing it.

• Pull a smaller flower from that crest for your RSVP or reception card

• Place a border on your menus or thank you notes using the same florals from the crest

The borders, crests, and illustrations in each collection are designed to complement one another without competing. Styling Guides offer additional options that make your suite feel cohesive not repetitive.

decorative elements

monograms & crests

Mix & Match

Letter Styles

Add a Crest

Choose from classic or modern letterforms, pair them with a floral, laurel, or ornamental crest, and carry the design through your entire suite for a look that’s cohesive without being overly coordinated.

Each Styling Guide includes a variety of crest designs that pair perfectly with Banter & Charm’s signature letter styles, or let the initials stand alone for a traditional look. 

envelope liners

vellum belly bands

pattern belly bands

gatefolds & vellum wraps

and fine art

Every Styling Guide includes hand crafted patterns that tie in with the decorative elements of your suite.

These coordinating prints ensure your envelope liners, belly bands, and gatefolds create a cohesive presentation.

Looking for something more colorful? Opt for a painterly liner sourced from vintage fine art.

patterns

custom illustrations

The Extra Touches That Make It Yours

While the Styling Guides include plenty of ways to personalize your suite, you may want something that has a special meaning to you as a couple.

That’s where custom illustrations come in. Use them in place of, or alongside, the illustrations or monograms shown in any collection.

Venue Drawings

Whether it’s a hometown chapel, a grand cathedral, or a villa in Italy, I’ve designed venue sketches for brides across the country.

If you’re getting married at one of the featured venues, you can use the existing sketch at no extra cost (just ask for the list!). If not, commission a custom pen-and-ink illustration of your ceremony location.

Custom Artwork

Your venue isn’t the only thing worth illustrating. From the oak tree where you’ll exchange vows to a sketch of your dog for your signature drink sign, custom artwork is a beautiful way to add personality to your suite.

Whether it’s a favorite landmark, a vintage car, or something sentimental, we’ll style the illustration to coordinate with your invitation design so it feels intentional, not random.

Have something meaningful in mind? Just ask and I’ll help you find the perfect place for it.

Cocktail Napkins

Large Installations

Dance Floor Design

Can Coolers

Can Coolers

Gift Tags

"Prescription" Guest Book

Cocktail Napkins

Can’t decide where to begin?

Schedule a free consultation, and we’ll sort through your ideas to find the perfect starting point for your suite.

- Diana and Brian

She was so patient, flexible, gracious, and kind through the entire process.

I cannot say enough good things about Sarah! My wedding package (invitations, favor tags, thank you cards, programs, etc.) are gorgeous! I have received so many compliments on them!