the secret to custom invitations without starting from scratch
You want wedding stationery that feels personal and polished without the overwhelm of starting from scratch. That’s where Banter & Charm’s Made-to-Measure design process comes in.
It starts with a thoughtfully designed foundation: a wedding stationery collection that includes save the dates, invitations, and day of stationery for a cohesive look from start to finish.
invitation
styling guides
flawlessly coordinated
But the real magic happens with each collection’s Styling Guide. It’s your shortcut to a custom invitation suite without the anxiety that the final piece won’t match your vision.
So what exactly are styling guides?
I’m sure you’ve heard of the popular “capsule wardrobe” concept: the idea that a few thoughtfully chosen pieces can mix and match effortlessly.
The Styling Guides are just that, but for your wedding stationery.
You can mix and match to your heart’s content, knowing everything’s been designed to work in harmony (and no, nothing will clash or feel like too much).
View your favorite invitation collection and click on "customize it" to see the styling guide.
Each guide offers a curated set of design elements that have been tested, paired, and refined to work beautifully together. So you’re not stuck making endless decisions, but you still get an invitation suite that feels undeniably “you.”
decorative elements
Shown here is the guide for The Veranda Suite
There’s a guide for every invitation collection! View the styling guide in the “customize it” section.
Styling Guides
font pairings
patterns
layouts
artwork
monograms
crests
borders, motifs, and illustrations
Borrow an element from another collection? Absolutely.
Styling Guides cut down on decision fatigue and streamline the custom design process.
But you’re not locked in to just a few decorative options.
You’re in Control (Without Being Overwhelmed)
Add a custom venue sketch? Done.
Find a more romantic script font? Of course.
You’ll also have access to my Design Library: a treasure trove of fonts, patterns, illustrations, and embellishments. And if it ever starts to feel like too much, I’m always here to help you cut through the chaos and make an executive decision.
It’s not about limiting your options! The Styling Guides simply give you a beautifully curated place to begin.
I never felt overwhelmed, even with so many beautiful options to choose from. You offered the perfect balance!
- Meghan and Chris
The freedom to personalize, and guidance when we needed it.
Sarah made it easy to feel confident in every decision, and our invitations ended up feeling completely “us” and even more beautiful than I could have imagined.
Just remember: font changes can shift the entire feel of your suite. Sometimes the best move is choosing a different Foundational Design that has the font style you’re drawn to.
shapes the story
Fonts are more than pretty letters: they shape the tone, style, and feel of your entire invitation.
But what if you don’t 100% love the font featured in your favorite invitation collection? No problem!
The Styling Guide has suggestions for alternate scripts that work seamlessly with the layout, or you can browse the Font Library for even more options.
typography
• Use a floral crest on your wedding invitation
It’s a subtle way to carry your style through every piece of your wedding paper without overdoing it.
• Pull a smaller flower from that crest for your RSVP or reception card
• Place a border on your menus or thank you notes using the same florals from the crest
The borders, crests, and illustrations in each collection are designed to complement one another without competing. Styling Guides offer additional options that make your suite feel cohesive not repetitive.
decorative
elements
monograms & crests
Mix & Match
Letter Styles
Add a Crest
Choose from classic or modern letterforms, pair them with a floral, laurel, or ornamental crest, and carry the design through your entire suite for a look that’s cohesive without being overly coordinated.
Each Styling Guide includes a variety of crest designs and monogram styles, ready to mix and match. The crests and letter styles are interchangeable, or let the initials stand alone for a classic look.
envelope liners
vellum belly bands
pattern belly bands
gatefolds & vellum wraps
and fine art
Want to add a finishing touch? Envelope liners, wraps, belly bands, and gatefolds are available in solid colors or printed with patterns or painted artwork (like watercolors and vintage fine art).
Every Styling Guide includes a few handpicked patterns that tie in with the decorative elements of your suite. You’ll also see recommendations for fine art that coordinates beautifully with your design.
patterns
custom illustrations
The Extra Touches That Make It Yours
While the Styling Guides include plenty of ways to personalize your suite, sometimes you’re looking for something a little more specific; something that has a special meaning to you as a couple.
That’s where custom illustrations come in. Use them in place of, or alongside, the illustrations or monograms shown in any collection.
Venue Drawings
Whether it’s a hometown chapel, a grand cathedral, or a villa in Italy, I’ve designed venue sketches for brides across the country.
If you’re getting married at one of the featured venues, you can use the existing sketch at no extra cost (just ask for the list!). If not, commission a custom pen-and-ink illustration of your ceremony location.
Custom Artwork
Your venue isn’t the only thing worth illustrating. From the oak tree where you’ll exchange vows to a sketch of your dog for your signature drink sign, custom artwork is a beautiful way to add personality to your suite.
Whether it’s a favorite landmark, a vintage car, or something sentimental, we’ll style the illustration to coordinate with your invitation design so it feels intentional, not random.
Have something meaningful in mind? Just ask and I’ll help you find the perfect place for it.
Cocktail Napkins
Large Installations
Dance Floor Design
Can Coolers
Can Coolers
Gift Tags
"Prescription" Guest Book
Cocktail Napkins
Can’t decide where to begin?
I’m happy to help! Schedule a consultation, and we’ll walk through your options together to find the perfect starting point for your suite.
06. What if I feel overwhelmed by all the choices?
05. Will my save the dates and day-of stationery coordinate with my invitation?
04. What if I don’t like the featured fonts?
03. What if I want something that’s not shown in the Styling Guide?
02. Can I mix and match elements from different designs?
01. How much can I change within a Foundational Design?
FAQ
You can customize everything from the fonts and colors to decorative elements like borders, monograms, and patterns. The layout and structure remain consistent, but the details are up to you.
How much can I change within a Foundational Design?
Absolutely. You’re welcome to pull monograms, borders, and embellishments from other Styling Guides (or any design featured on the site) to create a look that’s uniquely yours.
Can I mix and match elements from different designs?
That’s totally fine! The Styling Guide is a curated starting point, not a limitation. If you have a specific idea (like a new illustration or embellishment), we can talk through what’s possible.
What if I want something that’s not shown in the Styling Guide?
No worries! Each Styling Guide includes alternate script and non-script fonts you can choose from. Or, you can choose from the full Font Library. And I’m always happy to make recommendations based on the overall feel you’re going for.
What if I don’t like the featured fonts?
Yes! Each suite has coordinating save the date and wedding day pieces, so everything looks cohesive from start to finish without being too matchy.
Will my save the dates and day-of stationery coordinate with my invitation?
That’s exactly why the Styling Guide exists! To give you just the right amount of choice without decision fatigue. And if you’d prefer a more hands-off approach, I’m happy to give styling recommendations or make an executive decision for you.
What if I feel overwhelmed by all the choices?
- Diana and Brian
She was so patient, flexible, gracious, and kind through the entire process.
I cannot say enough good things about Sarah! My wedding package (invitations, favor tags, thank you cards, programs, etc.) are gorgeous! I have received so many compliments on them. But even more impressive, is Sarah. She was so patient, flexible, gracious and kind throughout the entire process. I even love and appreciate the way she packages and ships everything. You cannot go wrong with Sarah. She and her work are amazing!!!
