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You’re stuck in an endless loop of scrolling and pinning. You know exactly what you’re looking for, but nothing you find is quite right. You’ve considered going the bespoke route, but that seems over-the-top for your straightforward ideas and love of clean, classic design.

You’re getting lost in the details and second-guessing every decision. You’re more confused than ever, and feeling pressured to just choose something as the search drags on.

Your invitations should be

not another to-do list item you’re dreading

a joy to create

Sound familiar?
You’re in the right place

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So many stationers offer a so-called semi-custom collection – it sounds great, but what you’re really getting is a premade template where your information will be copy and pasted. Nothing about that sounds “custom” to me, which is why I developed my own take on it: the Made-to-Measure process.

The only semi-custom collection you can actually customize

The Banter & Charm
Difference

This process allows you to commission wedding invitation perfectly tailored to your style without an over the top, lengthy, complicated custom design process.

These tried and true layouts are the perfect base to build your beautiful stationery suite.
 
With multiple layouts for the invitation and insert cards, you’re sure to find one to meet your unique wording and event needs.

Pick your foundation

every made-to measure order includes the following customizations

the experience

How it works

- Change the colors and wording

Style it

- Pick your paper color and thickness

- Add decorative elements like a monogram, border, or illustrative detail Choose from each collection’s styling guide, or pick your own from the complete design library

All the embellishments and finishes are available a la carte so you can choose only the ones you want.

Accessorize it

envelope liners • silk ribbon • wax seals • vellum folders • belly bands • die cut shapes • edge painting • custom venue illustrations

- Alex and taylor

“The finished result is better than I could have imagined.”

Collaborating with Sarah on the save the date for our wedding was a positive experience from start to finish. She responded to all my messages promptly & provided her professional advice while still allowing us to partake in the design process. The finished result is better than I could have imagined and have already received so many compliments. The save the date was our guests’ first impression of our wedding & I am so glad I went with Banter & Charm to get everyone excited for our big day!

Which is why I’ll send you an interactive proposal after we’ve had a chance to chat about your stationery vision. If you’re including insert cards or multiple embellishments, expect a minimum investment of $5000 for save the dates, invitations, and day of paper.

Basic letterpress invitation sets start at

I work with a limited number of clients each season to give every bride the one-on-one experience she deserves.

I recommend booking save the dates at least a year in advance, and invitations 6-8 months before the wedding.

but we both know you’re anything but basic. 

$2100 for 100

Everything is available a la carte so you can have exactly the items you want (and none of the ones you don’t need).

The essentials are the invitation, reply card, and envelopes, but you’re encouraged to mix and match pieces, print methods, and embellishments to build a suite that is a perfect fit for your wedding.

You’re not the one-size-fits-all type

Want to add another insert or a belly band? What about gold foil and double thick paper with edge painting? No problem!

browse the customization options

I recommend booking save the dates at least a year in advance, and invitations 6-8 months before the wedding. But if you have your details finalized before then, the earlier the better! You’ll receive a personalized order timeline detailing the exact approval and shipping dates when you officially book.

When should I order?

The first step is to schedule a consultation and order samples. You can also browse the invitation suite collection to find your favorite look, giving your a head start on the design process.

How do I get started?

Yes! Every suite in the collection includes a full line of paper goods for your wedding day–everything from ceremony programs and place cards to thank you notes and signage. Day of stationery services are reserved for clients who have also booked their invitation suite with Banter & Charm.


Do you offer wedding day stationery?

For clients purchasing printed stationery, I offer hand drawn custom venue illustrations in a pen and ink style (see my portfolio for examples) and custom monograms.

Do you offer custom illustrations?

There is not a quantity minimum. Basic sets start at $2100 for 100 letterpress invitation suites. 
As a guide, most Banter & Charm couples allocate 8-10% of their overall wedding budget (or about $5000 - $9000) for their invitation suite and wedding day paper goods.

How much should I budget and is there a minimum?

Full assembly and mailing services are available. If you prefer to do it yourself, stationery ships to you ready to assemble. Don’t worry, I provide instructions and tips! 

Do you offer assembly and mailing?

FAQ

you’re setting the stage for a once-in-a-lifetime celebration

You’re not just picking paper

Don’t settle for “close enough.” You deserve an invitation suite that feels like it was made just for you, reflecting the joy of the wedding to come, building anticipation for each guest from the moment they see the beautiful envelope in their mailbox.

Let’s transform your vision into a tangible, beautiful reality— because your wedding deserves nothing less.

Like what you see here? Fill out the Wedding Inquiry form and order samples.

We’ll chat about your wedding stationery while you flip through invitations, swatches, and embellishments. After the call, I’ll send you an interactive proposal with a la carte options for printing styles and embellishments so you can mix and match to fit your needs. 

Step One

Getting started

Your invoice and design contract are available as soon as you fill out the proposal so we can kick off the next phase.

Submit the proposal and retainer, then you’re officially booked! 

You’ll get access to my exclusive client dashboard, filled with etiquette tips, wording advice, timelines, and guides for breezing through the invitation process.

Booking + details

Pick your foundational design, decide which styles are your perfect fit, and share the content for your stationery.

Step Two

I’ll use the information you shared to create digital mockups for all the pieces in your order. If you’re mixing elements from different foundational suites, customizing fonts, or adding a custom monogram or venue illustration, we’ll start with drafts of the main invitation first. Once that’s perfected, I’ll create the rest of the suite to coordinate.

We’ll refine your designs to perfection- once everything is finalized I work closely with trusted partners to produce your stationery.

See your designs come to life

Step Three

Some brides love to be hands on for this part–don’t worry, I’ll share tips for assembly and mailing.

If stuffing envelopes and navigating the post office doesn’t sound like a good time for you, I offer partial or full assembly and mailing services. If I’m mailing, you’ll receive your keepsake copies before I mail the rest to your guests.

All that’s left is to wait for the RSVPs (and compliments) to roll in.

Assembly and mailing

Step Four

Now that you’ve checked invitations off the list, you can start brainstorming ideas for your day of paper goods.

Banter & Charm offers everything from ceremony programs and place cards to signage and thank you notes so all your wedding stationery is flawlessly coordinated.

Browse the Wedding Day Stationery Guide to find out what items you may need.

Wedding day stationery

Step Five

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