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WEDDING INVITATIONs

as stylish as you are

Tired of scrolling endlessly,
searching for the perfect invitation design?

You’ve reached the bottom of your Pinterest feed and exhausted every Google search.

Ready-to-order template invitations lack personality and are frustrating to customize.

But bespoke designs feel over-the-top for your straightforward ideas.

I get it, and I have the

solution you’ve been looking for.

gold foil stamped invitation

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HOW IT WORKS

the Made-to-Measure process

Easily create a one-of-a-kind invitation with my unique approach to custom design: the Made-to-Measure process.
This is the Banter & Charm difference, and provides the personalization benefits of a bespoke invitation suite, but with the ease and peace of mind that comes with ready-to-order designs.

STEP ONE

discovering the details

Start with a signature layout,
then customize everything

- 20+ signature layouts

- wording examples

- fonts

- ink colors

- choose a border or motif

- add custom calligraphy

- pick a monogram

STEP TWO

refine and revise

See your design take shape
and make changes quickly and easily

- preview drafts of your invitation in different colors, fonts, and layouts

- revise to your heart’s content before anything is printed

- pick the printing styles and papers that best showcase your design

- get advice and suggestions that fit your aesthetic and budget

STEP THREE

finishing touches

Then add finishing touches from a
menu of time-tested options

- envelopes

- envelope liners

- belly bands

- ribbon

- die cut shapes

- edge painting

- wax seals

Your level of involvement
in the design process
is completely up to you!

Just like your invitations are fitted to your style, the design process is also tailored to suit you.

You can be as involved as you like: direct every last detail, or sit back and allow me to craft the design based on your preferences and selections.

get a custom quote for your dream stationery

REAL WEDDING INSPIRATION

Having a hard time picturing how it will all come together? See how previous brides have customized their wedding invitations in the portfolio.

Love what you see? Take any look and make it yours in a few simple steps.

GET INSPIRED

Letterpress stationery starts at

$2100 for 100

Custom Invitation
on cotton paper in one ink color

Custom RSVP Card
on cotton paper in one ink color

Printed Envelopes
flat print return + reply addresses,
and individual guest addresses

Envelope Liner
solid color, pattern, or design

GET A CUSTOM QUOTE
Atlanta wedding invitations dusty rose

Now booking stationery for 2023 fall and winter weddings and beyond

WHAT PREVIOUS CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY

Omg they’re so pretty! A year later and they are still the only wedding related item that’s in a frame in our house Again thank you so much, to this day I still say that my favorite part of the wedding was the invites/paper. (You know besides the whole getting married part)

- Carolyn, Bride

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2019-09-26T15:44:23+00:00

- Carolyn, Bride

Omg they’re so pretty! A year later and they are still the only wedding related item that’s in a frame in our house Again thank you so much, to this day I still say that my favorite part of the wedding was the invites/paper. (You know besides the whole getting married part)
https://banterandcharm.com/testimonials/caroyln-bride

WHAT PREVIOUS CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY

Sarah was wonderful to work with! She was very accommodating to any special requests I had and was super helpful with providing a detailed process before I even ordered. She stuck to each of the deadlines she outlines when I placed my order and I was very pleased with my final product. I received quite a lot of compliments on how beautiful my invites turned out!

- Kristina, Bride

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2019-09-26T15:46:18+00:00

- Kristina, Bride

Sarah was wonderful to work with! She was very accommodating to any special requests I had and was super helpful with providing a detailed process before I even ordered. She stuck to each of the deadlines she outlines when I placed my order and I was very pleased with my final product. I received quite a lot of compliments on how beautiful my invites turned out!
https://banterandcharm.com/testimonials/kristina-bride

WHAT PREVIOUS CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY

I just received my wedding invitations and am over the moon at how perfect they are! Sarah was incredibly helpful in selecting the right colors and paper to make sure everything was just right. I’m so excited to get them in the mail! Thank you so much Sarah! I absolutely love them!

- Jennifer, Bride

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2019-09-26T15:48:27+00:00

- Jennifer, Bride

I just received my wedding invitations and am over the moon at how perfect they are! Sarah was incredibly helpful in selecting the right colors and paper to make sure everything was just right. I’m so excited to get them in the mail! Thank you so much Sarah! I absolutely love them!
https://banterandcharm.com/testimonials/jennifer-bride

WHAT PREVIOUS CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your time and effort. I am blown away by the beauty of your work. I love all things paper and know that your work has already brought my event to another level.

- Andrea, Bride

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2019-09-27T20:00:26+00:00

- Andrea, Bride

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your time and effort. I am blown away by the beauty of your work. I love all things paper and know that your work has already brought my event to another level.
https://banterandcharm.com/testimonials/andrea

WHAT PREVIOUS CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY

I cannot say enough good things about Sarah! My wedding package (invitations, favor tags, thank you cards, programs, etc.) are gorgeous! I have received so many compliments on them. But even more impressive, is Sarah. I had to change the whole look of my wedding (went from a destination wedding to back yard garden wedding) and she was so patient, flexible, gracious and kind throughout the entire process. I even love and appreciate the way she packages and ships everything. You cannot go wrong with Sarah. She and her work are amazing!!!

- Dina, Bride

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2019-09-27T20:01:16+00:00

- Dina, Bride

I cannot say enough good things about Sarah! My wedding package (invitations, favor tags, thank you cards, programs, etc.) are gorgeous! I have received so many compliments on them. But even more impressive, is Sarah. I had to change the whole look of my wedding (went from a destination wedding to back yard garden wedding) and she was so patient, flexible, gracious and kind throughout the entire process. I even love and appreciate the way she packages and ships everything. You cannot go wrong with Sarah. She and her work are amazing!!!
https://banterandcharm.com/testimonials/dina

WHAT PREVIOUS CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY

OH MY GOODNESS SARAH!!! These invitations are BEAUTIFUL!! Thank you so much for being apart of our big day. You have been nothing but helpful during this entire process. You are amazing! I can’t thank you enough!!!

- Meghan, Bride

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2019-09-27T20:02:22+00:00

- Meghan, Bride

OH MY GOODNESS SARAH!!! These invitations are BEAUTIFUL!! Thank you so much for being apart of our big day. You have been nothing but helpful during this entire process. You are amazing! I can’t thank you enough!!!
https://banterandcharm.com/testimonials/meghan
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YOU'RE NOT THE ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL TYPE

Want to add another insert or a belly band?
What about gold foil and double thick paper with edge painting?
No problem!

Everything is available a la carte so you can have exactly the items you want (and none of the ones you don’t need). The essentials are the invitation, reply card, and envelopes, but you’re encouraged to mix and match pieces, print methods, and embellishments to build a suite that is a perfect fit for your wedding.

Ready to begin?

get a custom quote for your dream stationery

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

If you don’t see an answer to your question, or would rather talk to a real person instead of reading, feel free to contact me: hello@banterandcharm.com

When should I order?
6-9 months before your wedding date is the ideal time to begin. But if you have your details finalized before then, the earlier the better! You’ll receive a personalized order timeline detailing the exact approval and shipping dates when you officially order.
And how long does it take?
Once you’re on board as a Banter & Charm client, the design process takes 8-12 weeks from start to ship. You’ll receive a personalized timeline for your order, so you know what to expect, and when to expect it.
How do I get started?
Start your wedding invitation order by scheduling a consultation . You can find more details about the ordering process on the design process page.
Can I see samples first?
Yes! I highly encourage that you order samples before placing a full order.
Do you only offer letterpress?
Wedding invitations are available in flat printing, screen printing, letterpress, foil stamping or a combination of the three.
Please view our customization guide for a detailed look at the methods.

Can you help with my wording?
Absolutely! You’ll receive access to guides with sample wording and etiquette tips when we kick off the order.
What if I change my mind or don’t love what we come up with?
We have the whole proofing process to get your invitations just right – and nothing prints until you are 100% in love. That being said, if it comes to a point where you’re just not happy and want to call it quits, you can cancel your order any time prior to final approval. You won’t owe any additional fees, but your retainer is non-refundable to cover the time spent in the design process.
How do I get started?
Start your wedding invitation order by scheduling a consultation . You can find more details about the ordering process on the design process page.
Is there a minimum order? How much should I budget?
8-10% is a good range for all your paper goods (including save the dates, invitations, and day of paper goods).
There is not a quantity minimum, but the smaller the quantity, the higher the cost per piece. Expect a minimum investment of $2000.
What about day of stationery?
Yes! I would love to give your ceremony and reception stationery the same tailor-made treatment as your invitations.

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ABOUT ME

I’m Sarah, and I create tailor-made wedding stationery for brides that need a simple, classic invitation design with just the right amount of personality.

Banter & Charm is a Michigan wedding invitation design studio based in St. Joseph. Not local? I serve brides throughout Michigan and northern Indiana, Notre Dame, Chicago, the Midwest, and across the US. Read More…

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Wax seals are on trend for wedding invitations rig Wax seals are on trend for wedding invitations right now! The wonderful thing about these seals is how versatile they can be. Wax seals aren't just for envelopes anymore, and I'm sharing 5 unique ways to use wax seals in your wedding stationery on the blog today! (link in profile)⠀⁠
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I love posting time-lapse videos - let's be honest, they're more fun to watch! - but they're deceptive. Even though you know the video is sped up, it's hard to tell how much. So I wanted to share one in real time in case you were thinking about assembling your own invitations.⁠
It took me about 1 minute to stack the pieces, wrap the ribbon, and tie 1 bow. I was going a little slower than normal to make it easier to see what was going on, but it still takes time! And if you've never done it before, it will probably take longer.⁠
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Madison said "very very thick paper is a must" for Madison said "very very thick paper is a must" for her wedding stationery, so very very thick is what we did! The invitation was printed on 4-ply museum board, and when you have a piece of paper with edges like that you have to add a little gold edge painting.⁠
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The prettiest dusty blue invitations for Maura and The prettiest dusty blue invitations for Maura and Zach's wedding at @EtreFarms 😍⁠
Featuring letterpress on crisp white cotton paper with hand deckled edges. A coordinating "wedding weekend events" card featured sweet illustrations to highlight the different celebrations taking place that weekend, like a welcome party and morning after brunch.⁠
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It's common to want to cross "stationery" off your It's common to want to cross "stationery" off your wedding to-do list once the invitations are finished, but there is so much more to your wedding paper! Think about all the items you'll need on the big day: table number, escort cards, menus, signs, programs . . .  Let's give them the same attention as your invitation suite so your stationery is flawless from start to finish.⁠
The best time to get started on day of stationery like this? I like to begin about the time you mail your invitations. This lets us finish up the design just in time for your RSVPs to start rolling in, and then you're not rushing around at the last minute to finalize everything!⁠
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So you’ve tackled your wedding invitation wordin So you’ve tackled your wedding invitation wording, figured out your RSVP by date and reply card wording, and decided whether you need a reception card or not. But where do you put your wedding website? And what about hotel accommodations, directions, and the welcome dinner details? Getting overwhelmed? Don’t worry! Today I’m going to share some insert card wording samples for all those other detail cards you might need in your invitation suite - just follow #theweddingstationeryguide link in my profile.⁠
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It's almost the weekend! That means it's time for It's almost the weekend! That means it's time for a quick #fridayintroductions ⁠
Hello! I'm Sarah - I’m a Midwest girl, born and raised in southwest Michigan where I still live today. I’m married to the love of my life, Jake, and am a mom to two adorable children, Abby and Alex. I believe in God and good manners, I treasure family traditions (both old and new), and I’m passionate about beautiful typography and pretty paper. ⁠
Fortunately, my passion is also my full-time job, and I spend my days designing wedding invitations for sweet brides through my stationery company, Banter & Charm. My side hustles also involve designing! Whether it's holiday cards for @minted or funny t-shirt on @zazzle I'm happiest when I'm able to put my creative talents to good use.⁠
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I can't think of a better way to make your wedding I can't think of a better way to make your wedding invitations stand out in the mail than with hand calligraphy 😍 How often is it that you received a piece of mail with your name handwritten on it? And when the calligraphy is as gorgeous as this work by @madebymeer , the envelope becomes a personalized piece of art!⁠
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