A refined take on chinoiserie, inspired by heirloom china patterns.

These chinoiserie wedding invitations feature hand-drawn botanical patterns, delicate butterflies, and subtle nature-inspired details, carried through your save the dates and day-of paper.

Shown here in sapphire blue on thick cotton paper, the look is perfect for spring and summer weddings or any celebration with a classic blue-and-white palette.

Letterpress invitations start at $2,550 for 100. Inquire or visit the shop for personalized pricing.

Inspired by heirloom pattern, designed for today.

This suite was made to be tailored, not worn off the rack.

Every piece in this wedding collection, from the save the date to the invitation to table numbers, can be customized. 

The Styling Guide includes chinoiserie inspired floral patterns, decorative borders, and coordinating crests, each designed to layer together in a way that feels balanced and intentional.

Incorporate a die cut shape in you invitation suite to add interest, or choose a colored paper to layer in more of your wedding color palette.

Skip the floral elements altogether and add a gold foil custom venue illustration paired with clean typography. Featured venue illustration: The Bronx Zoo in The Bronx, New York.

For a more decorative look, add the coordinating floral border with delicate butterflies and bees to frame the invitation. Share chinoiserie-inspired details from the very first impression to your day of paper.

Change the ink colors and layer in finishes like wax seals, envelope liners, and silk ribbon for an elevated look with an heirloom feel.

Skip the floral elements altogether and add a gold foil custom venue illustration paired with clean typography. Featured venue illustration: The Bronx Zoo in The Bronx, New York.

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Styling Guide

This curated set of design elements has been tested, paired, and refined to work beautifully together. So you’re not stuck making endless decisions, but you still get an invitation suite that feels undeniably “you.”

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Invitation Suite

Choose from flexible layouts and insert options to fit your wedding details, whether it’s a traditional reception or full weekend of events.

Each design can be customized using elements from the Styling Guide, along with your wording, colors, and preferred printing method.

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Visit the semi-custom shop for pricing or to customize your selections and place your order.

Still researching? Take a closer look at the design process and explore customization options.

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Save the Date

Choose from photo or non-photo formats, with layouts that adapt to your wording and style preferences.

Add an optional backer to share more photos or additional wedding information.

Each option ties seamlessly into the rest of your suite, so everything feels consistent from the very beginning.

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wedding day Paper

This collection extends beyond the invitation to include coordinating day-of stationery: menus, programs, table numbers, escort cards, and more.

Each piece is designed to carry your aesthetic through the event, creating a cohesive, polished experience from start to finish.


Wedding day stationery is offered for clients ordering their invitation suite through Banter & Charm.

Choose the path that fits your planning style.

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Semi-custom

Semi-custom invitation packages start at $1,775 for 100 in flat print and $2,550 for 100 in letterpress.

A streamlined experience for brides who want classic, well-crafted stationery without managing endless choices.

Customize within your collection using curated design elements and preset embellishment pairings.

6 - 8 weeks from booking to shipping

Custom Invitations

Custom invitation suites start at $4,500 for 100.

Classic at its foundation, unmistakably yours in the details, with custom artwork in every suite. Printing, assembly, postage, and mailing all handled for your.

book 10-12 months before your wedding

Design begins 6-7 months out

Custom design with assembly, postage, and mailing included.