You want to make sure every detail of your wedding reflects you as a couple.
timeless, polished,
unmistakably you.
And best of all, you didn’t lift a finger after clicking “approve”.
Every bow tied. Every address printed. Every stamp in place.
No dining table covered in envelopes. No line at the post office.
Just the quiet relief of a note that says: they’re in the mail.
Two to three months before the wedding, during the busiest stretch of planning, alongside dress fittings, tastings, showers, and bachelorette weekends,
Suddenly you’re looking at hours of assembling, stuffing, and stamping, at the exact moment you have the least time to give.
That’s exactly why I handle it for you.
banter & Charm
what this gives you:
✉️ A custom invitation suite that feels unmistakably yours: classic, considered, never over-the-top.
✉️ Expert guidance on design, wording, and etiquette, so you can stop second-guessing and approve with complete confidence.
✉️ Every invitation assembled, every address printed, and every envelope stamped, by someone who does this every day.
✉️ Your keepsake suites at your door before a single guest receives theirs, so you see the finished result first.
✉️ One entire category of wedding planning, crossed off for good, so your evenings go to your fiancé, not a dining table covered in envelopes.
- christina and nathan
“I loved being able to give my input and then trust Sarah to handle everything else.
It was one of the few parts of wedding planning where I genuinely felt like I could just enjoy the process.”
How to get started
Share a few details about your wedding using the form below. Within 1–2 business days, your custom invitation proposal and initial design board will arrive in your inbox.
Your proposal includes three packages at different price points. Think of it as a starting point: you don’t need to decide on upgrades or design details yet. We’ll work those out together, and nothing is set in stone.
Select your package, sign your design agreement, submit your retainer, and you’re officially booked. Reserve your date with a $1,000 retainer; the remaining balance is divided into milestone payments.
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You could piece it together yourself: a designer here, a calligrapher there, your bridesmaids on assembly duty for a weekend you could have spent wine tasting.
And then the post office is out of the pretty butterfly stamps you planned to use, and you’re stuck putting bright red love stamps on your spring pastel invitation suite.
All this somehow lands in the same few weeks as your dress fitting, your shower, and every vendor’s “just checking in” email.
From your first design conversation to the moment your invitations hit the mailbox, every step stays in the hands of one designer who does this every day.
Because the real luxury isn’t the letterpress or the custom design. It’s not having to lift a finger after you click “approve”.
request your custom invitation proposal
with most couples investing $6,000–$8,000 for a complete invitation suite, including printing, address printing, finishes, postage, assembly, and mailing.
with most couples investing $6,000–$8,000.
Your envelopes receive the same thoughtful attention, custom designed to coordinate with your suite, with all addressing handled.
We start with a consultation, then a curated lookbook of colors, typography, and finishes, so you don’t need a fully formed vision to begin.
Every package includes a custom illustrated element (a venue illustration, monogram crest, or meaningful motif) paired with curated details that complement your style.
Two rounds of detailed, realistic proofs, with honest recommendations on wording, etiquette, and design. Nothing prints until you love it
I manage printing and check every piece against your approved proof. Your guest addresses are printed to match your suite, with a simple template and guidance to make gathering them easy.
Every bow tied, every seal set, every detail finished by hand. Two keepsake suites arrive at your door before the rest are hand-canceled and on their way to your guests’ mailboxes.
From recommending the best mailing method to sourcing and applying the stamps, your postage is as carefully considered as the rest of your suite.
Every package includes a custom illustrated element (a venue illustration, monogram crest, or meaningful motif) paired with curated details that complement your style.
I manage printing and check every piece against your approved proof. Your guest addresses are printed to match your suite, with a simple template and guidance to make gathering them easy.
Every bow tied, every seal set, every detail finished by hand. Two keepsake suites arrive at your door before the rest are hand-canceled and on their way to your guests’ mailboxes.
From recommending the best mailing method to sourcing and applying the stamps, your postage is as carefully considered as the rest of your suite.
Because every suite is designed, assembled, and mailed in my studio, I take on a limited number of custom projects each season.
Invitations are best reserved 9–12 months before your wedding, with design beginning around 7 months out.
You don’t need to make a single decision to reserve your spot.
Semi-custom invitation suites start at $1,775 for 100, with the same thoughtful design and expert guidance.
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“What impressed me most was how much you handled behind the scenes. Knowing that everything would be assembled, addressed, and mailed correctly was such a relief for me.”
- Kathy, mother of the bride
“Obsessed with how all the stationery came out. We got so many compliments—people even said they would frame our invitations, that’s how beautiful they were.”
- holly and ryan
“I loved seeing our invitations come together, especially the beautiful drawing of our church. It’s one of my favorite details from our wedding, and I know we’ll treasure it for years.”
- madison and patrick
“Sarah makes everything really easy and straightforward during the process, which took a lot of the stress off my plate… Everything was such high quality and accurately printed.”
- caitlin and padraic
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Nearly two decades designing for national stationery brands and working with hundreds of couples at Banter & Charm showed me that couples want more than a beautiful invitation.
They want someone to handle every detail from concept to printing to the mailbox.
Nearly two decades designing for national stationery brands, including Minted, taught me how to create beautiful invitations. Working with hundreds of couples at Banter & Charm showed me that couples want more than a beautiful invitation.
They want someone to handle every detail from concept to printing to the mailbox. (And honestly, those are some of my favorite parts.)
You don't need a fully formed vision to begin. That's what I'm here for.
Fill out as much as you know. “We’re not sure yet” is a perfectly good answer. Only the starred questions are required, and within 1–2 business days I’ll send a proposal tailored to your wedding, with advice on where to start.
Full-service custom invitations start at $4,500, with most couples investing between $6,000–$8,000 for a complete invitation suite including letterpress printing, finishes, postage, assembly, and mailing.
Reserve your date with a $1,000 retainer; the remaining balance is divided into milestone payments once design begins and at approval.
Custom invitations are best reserved 9–12 months before your wedding, with design beginning around 7 months out. Invitations are traditionally mailed 8–12 weeks before the wedding. You'll receive your keepsake suites before the guests' invitations are mailed.
Save the dates are best booked at least a year in advance.
That’s exactly where most couples begin, and what I’m here for.
You don’t need a mood board or a fully formed vision. We’ll start with a conversation about your wedding and what you love, and I’ll create a curated lookbook that brings your direction into focus.
That’s completely normal.
Your proposal is based on an estimated quantity, and we’ll finalize guest counts, insert cards, and other details as your plans come together. You don’t have to have every answer before booking your project.
Yes. Non-machinable first-class USPS postage is built into your proposal, plus reply envelope postage if you choose mail-in RSVPs.
I plan for postage from the very first design conversation, so if a design choice would change your postage, you’ll know during design, not at the end. Vintage postage and protective tracked mailers are available as upgrades.
Semi-custom is a streamlined take on custom, with fewer decisions and a quicker process. Custom is fully designed around your wedding, and it includes assembly, postage, and mailing, so everything after your proof is taken care of.
Compare your traditional invitation options
Yes! Ordering a sample box is a great way to see and feel the paper, printing styles, and finishing details in person. Once booked, I can send additional samples that showcase the materials and colors we’ll use in your invitation suite.
You can also view my portfolio to see real couple’s wedding invitation suites.
- Annie and John
“Working with Banter & Charm was one of my favorite memories from wedding planning.”
Above all else, Sarah is a professional, and you know it immediately. She has a lovely process for brides who can’t meet in person, and provides such helpful insight as the process evolves. On top of that, she elevated my vision and gave me a keepsake that I will always treasure. Sarah is helpful, creative and so on top of it, I am grateful for her beautiful work!